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| shortymanda |
i was standing with security...thanks for the advice.d
| quote: | Originally posted by tarrantella66
Exactly what kind of disgusting behaviour are you talking about?
I think you should elaborate on that.
And BTW, if you witness any kind of inappropiate behaviour, I think common sense dictates that you should call SECURITY and complain.
We live in a DEMOCRACY and one of the duties and privileges that come with it is the RIGHT TO SPEAK OUT.
If people remain silent, the offenders will assume that everybody else is OK with their actions.
But we have to SAY SOMETHING.
Sonic has nice staff and if you complain, I'm sure they will be happy to act and try to correct the situation.
If we want a nice crowd, then let's make sure that EVERYBODY PLAYS NICE TO EACH OTHER. |
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| shortymanda |
it was my first gay night at that venue and i went for the music not for the socialization but swore it off
now here i am not wanting to miss another phenomenal dj but dont want to see some young kid bent over takin it ...well anyways
i know what i can and cannot do i just dont like to see certain things hence my statement, my freedom of speach
thanks again for the wise advice
| quote: | Originally posted by oldschool420
Dude Friday night is gay night. Plus if it bothers you THAT much, I suggest you stay home. |
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| shortymanda |
i actually think it's disgusting no matter what genders are involved, there's a place for that stuff and if u cant take it home u aint gettin any worthwhile anyways LOL
| quote: | Originally posted by torontobarfly
funny how when a guy and girl are getting too friendly with each other in public it's usually "inappropriate" but when it's two guys it's disgusting...
there was allot of bitching and whining about certain peoples behavior at sonic on straight nights...now the straight people are bitching and whining about peoples behavior on gay nights?
it's no wonder the montrealers read our threads and just laugh their asses off
i'd laugh too, but since i live here i'm more embarrassed than amused |
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| shortymanda |
THANK YOU!!! my points exactly!
and that's what i plan to do as i previously stated, wedge behind a speaker or something lol
im there for the music and cant help but see things i dont want to in any club, i started wearing sunglasses at guv when i used to venture there just so i couldnt see much, not to join the fad i just didnt want to see things LOL!
if u recognize me say hi im not a snob im nice to everyone and i dont shun anyone away any colour shape sexual orientation
just dont like to see people tryin to have at 'er in front of me or in my sights LOL!
see you on the dancefloor IN RAUUUUUUUHOFER!
| quote: | Originally posted by GCoria
Listen, there's "inappropriate" or "disgusting" behavior going on at gay clubs all the time in Toronto. Always has, and probably always will. And whether some people like it or not, Sonic is a gay club on Friday nights. As a gay man, I can't stand some of the stuff I see at gay clubs, it makes me uncomfortable and irritated, especially when I'm trying to dance and I get bumped intentionally so that some gay guy hopes I'll look up and notice him (I do notice you, I noticed you the first 4 times you hit me, and if you do it again, I'm gonna throw an elbow in your unattractive face.) But sadly, I accept that I'm in the minority of gay people. And I accept that a lot of those people are good friends of mine, and if I spent the night talking to them about their behavior, I'd be miserable. I accept all of it and ignore it. I've seen Rauhofer live before, and although I was surrounded by the same sweaty shirtless men, at a club with a flyer with the same sweaty dude touching himself (are you kidding me with that? At least a picture with Rauhofer touching himself woulda been more relevant) I still had one of the best nights ever. Rauhofer will be amazing. I know it will be hard, but my advice to uncomfortable straight people who are on the fence about this event would be the same advice I'd give to any uncomfortable gay people (like me). Find a spot, corner, nook on the dance floor (not in the middle, I hate the middle), surround yourself with as many good friends or people that you can get, and just keep looking at each other and tune all the other "inappropriate" or "disgusting" crap out. Just your friends, and the music. It is MUCH easier said than done, it's not the ideal atmosphere to experience Rauhofer in, but you can't have your cake and eat it too. For me, Rauhofer is worth it. And if you see an irritated little gay guy wandering around looking for a small piece of the floor to dance on and some cool people to dance with, please don't shoot me a look or push me or think I’m hitting on you (I'm seriously not trying to hit on you! I just look around a lot and smile too much when I'm.....partying.)
I can’t wait for Rauhofer. I hope everyone can relax about the stupid stuff, and just be as excited for this night as I am.
P.S- The security staff on Friday's are mostly gay (at least the ones I'm aware of) So complaining to them about whatever behavior you don’t like isn’t gonna get you far. |
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| coconuticecream |
omg haha i can't wait. ive been wanting to hear this guy live for ever.
without a doubt i know he will drop one crazy set. gay, str8, girl, guy, shirt off, no shirt off, whatever, this guy will take ya away, you wont care who the hell is dancing beside you. |
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