|Originally posted by Fledz |
Lira is back, yay!
|Originally posted by Fledz |
Well I can't just let my abrasive reputation slip now can I? Especially not with Lira around!
Well, that's the reason why I returned: all boards need a resident hippy so the rest of you can be abrasive
Talking about being the resident hippy, I've just read an article about "Angie Varona" (check picture to confirm you already know her, I'm sure you do). I can't help but feel bad for the girl, as I had no idea these pictures had such an impact on her life:
|MIAMI — Juan and Maria Varona of Miami are struggling through a situation no parent should ever have to wrestle with. Hackers have intruded into their lives, violated their daughter's privacy. And they want others to know that it can happen to them, too.|
About four years ago, their youngest child, Angie Varona, uploaded some photos to her private Photobucket account. Among the pictures: Angie posing in her bikini and in a bra and panties, images meant only for her then-boyfriend to see. She was 14 and brash — as many teens are at that age — without the foresight to suspect what could happen next.
"It was stupid," Angie, now 18, says. "I guess I thought I looked appealing and sexy. My self-esteem wasn't what it should've been either."
Plenty of her friends were doing much of the same. Posting provocative pictures on their Facebook walls. Sending images they would later regret to boyfriends who would one day become ex-boyfriends. But Angie's account was hacked, and six months later a school friend emailed her an ominous note: Her pictures were appearing on porn sites.
At the time, her name did not accompany her photos. That would come later. That and people posing as Angie Varona on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube and assorted forums and message boards.
Eventually, the nightmarish notoriety would land the Miami teen on ABC's "Nightline" to warn other girls about the possible consequences of posting provocative photos — no matter how private the website. She also recounted her story in MiamiMontage, a publication produced by high school journalism students at a University of Miami summer program.
"All this time, I wish I had listened to my parents," she says. "None of this would've happened and I would just be living through the regular drama of high school."
Remembering that initial discovery still makes her shudder. "I was crying hysterically. I couldn't believe it," she says. And she didn't know then how bad it would get. Over the next four years, she would become an unwitting and unwilling Internet sex symbol.
She immediately told her parents, who went to Miami-Dade police and hired a lawyer. The police couldn't do anything about it. There was no nudity in the photos, so it didn't qualify as child pornography. But it was the family's introduction to the underworld of child erotica.
"Some of those sites had girls younger than Angie, naked," recalls Juan Varona, a teacher. "Kids take pictures of themselves in the bathroom and don't understand how others can just hack into their accounts."
Varona says he was disappointed in his daughter when he found out what had happened. He and his wife had warned her about the perils of the Internet. As a teacher, he was aware of the growing problem of teens posting and sending nude or semi-nude photos of themselves. But he also recognized that Angie's photos were no more than "bathing suit shots. It wasn't any different than what you see other girls wearing on the beach or in Victoria's Secret [catalogs]."
The family's lawyer emailed some of the websites to ask that the unauthorized photos be taken down. A few complied. One hacker was tracked to Spain, too, and for a few months the Varonas thought the problem might be contained.
Juan, however, was anxious. "I knew that when something gets out there, when something goes viral, you can't stop it. It takes on a life of its own."
And it did, with the photos making their way to pedophile sites. Within weeks, classmates and teachers at her high school knew about her Internet photos. Some called her a slut and a porn star. "They would stare at me funny in the hallways and I knew why," Angie recalls. "If I was dating a guy, they would send him the pictures from one of the websites and ask, do you want to date a girl that the whole world can see her body?"
Even now, if you Google her name, you get more than a million hits. "People are mean. They'll write that I wanted to be famous, that I wanted all this, and I didn't," she says.
Her friends told her it could be worse — the photos could be more revealing. But that offered little consolation. She changed schools. Her parents worried how it would affect her college and job prospects.
"These kind of things happened in our time, but they were contained," Juan Varona said. "We didn't have anything like the Internet. Now there's no privacy."
The torment didn't end in the new school. She was stalked and threatened. She had to leave her job at a mall when the manager kept getting calls — male voices asking when Angie Varona was working. She fought with her parents and ran away a couple of times.
Eventually, the Varonas decided to home school her. It was a momentous change for Angie, a gifted student who had enjoyed the social and academic aspects of the classroom. Now in 12th grade, she looks back with regret at what she has missed — her junior ring ceremony, senior class activities, the camaraderie.
She has changed. She's no longer as friendly as she once was. "It's hard for me to make new friends," she says.
She can't wait to move out of Miami, out of Florida, and hopes that leaving home for college will put the past behind her. She is considering changing her name.
The most difficult part for her? "The embarrassment to my family. Say what you want about me, but don't go around bashing my parents. They didn't do this."
I've always felt uncomfortable about the popularity of the pictures of someone who's clearly under-aged, even if they look "promising in the future", or whatever you call it (it's not hard to stumble upon these pictures either, as the internet is full of unwilling "stars"). Should there not be a law against this? It's not like the internet is running out of porn and big bosomed models...