|Originally posted by Miss Pie |
Well, I'm sure that, regardless of how you make it happen, it will all come together in due time.
On another note, I need to rant about my sister. She's so fucking selfish and self centered, and full of shit. She always goes on how family is so important to her and she cares about her family and she's such an empathetic and giving, loving, caring, person blahlbahblahbullshitblahdeeblahshutthefuckup. Yet she never comes to visit my mother (who is on dialysis and probably has 10 years, at best, left on this planet), even though she has time to take trips to Toronto, which is 40 minutes away from here.
And not only that, but my mother's been in the hospital since last Tuesday. I didn't bother telling my sister because my mom actually doesn't like talking to her. All my sister does is upset my mom with her selfish "WHAT ABOUT MEEE???!!" bullshit whenever she phones, and she's generally really fucking insensitive and clueless when it comes to communicating with my mother. For example, when my mother was first told she had to go on dialysis, which is a HUGE life change in so many ways - my sister said to her "YOU BETTER CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE ABOUT LIFE, MOM!" And going on being all bossy telling her she HAS to do this and that and the other. Like, fuck off!
So yeah, my sister texted me yesterday at 6pm, wanting to know where our mother is cause she's been calling all day to no avail, and SO worried, blabhlabhbullshit. So responded that she was at the hospital, and stupidly gave her the room number to call my mom.
What does she fucking do? Calls my SICK mother and reams her out for not contacting her, wanting to know why nobody told her (WHAT ABOUT MEEEE???!!), etc. and doing her usual thing of really upsetting my mom.
Then she texts me back after asking if I could please let her know next time.
God fuck, how are we related??!! She's so full of fucking shit man. She talks a big story but her actions don't match half the shit she says.
Thanks jp, that's actually not at all the kind of input I was expecting from you.. no offense, heh.
Anyways, 1) I was always under the assumption since waaay back in the day that you annd your sister got along.. 2) yeah that's mad fucked up, I hate people like that, and 3) then again I can see why she would be hurt if no one told her her own mother was in the hospital. But when you act like a selfish **** to your family all the time, what do you expect?