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Originally posted by we_R_DNA Dichotomies Walking and talking through the trees Windless days Sleepless nights Soundless echos Times for the ageless aging through times looking back to look forward Dichotomies through the night touching the sun Floods in the Desert Life and death for Him and Her they were Coming and Going Dichotomies

Do you actually understand what "Dichotomy" means?

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Originally posted by Sushipunk Do you actually understand what "Dichotomy" means?

I don't think so. We all know a "dyke of Tami" is a female worshipper of the big titty daughter of God... yet, he never posted the sacred picture of God's true gift to mankind, with emphasis on the "man" bit:



(In case Andrew isn't acquainted with the terminology, a bloke that worships Tami is a "dick of Tami").

I hope this settles it.

I fucking hate facebook. Really. Fucking HATE.

I go nearly two years with out communicating with that girl and I get drunk one night and have a laptop and fucking end up sending a facebook message.

Luckily it was a benign one.... Ugh. I suck.

I fail to see the problem. It's not like you decreased your odds of dating her, and you can always reconnect



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You usually can...

Let me explain what a dichotomy is:
men = those who are socially competent + creepy guys like Nou

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Originally posted by Lira I fail to see the problem. It's not like you decreased your odds of dating her, and you can always reconnect ... You usually can...

I don't want to reconnect! That girl is like heroin. I cease to function when she is in my life (well thats probably hyperbole).

I have no idea what the fuck it is with her, but for some reason my gut clenches up, I get sweaty palms, and my mind just goes into a tumble at the mere sight or mention of her.

It sucks. Even 2 years down the line...

Is she even legal yet?

They're roughly the same age, Fledz

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Originally posted by Joss Weatherby I don't want to reconnect! That girl is like heroin. I cease to function when she is in my life (well thats probably hyperbole). I have no idea what the fuck it is with her, but for some reason my gut clenches up, I get sweaty palms, and my mind just goes into a tumble at the mere sight or mention of her. It sucks. Even 2 years down the line...

Isn't there any other girl you fancy? It sounds like you probably idealise her because (1) either you've never been as close to other girl as you've been to her (2) or you don't know many more girls so you haven't given yourself the opportunity to fancy anyone else.

Either way, the solution is the same: go out there and meet other girls!

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Originally posted by Lira They're roughly the same age, Fledz Isn't there any other girl you fancy? It sounds like you probably idealise her because (1) either you've never been as close to other girl as you've been to her (2) or you don't know many more girls so you haven't given yourself the opportunity to fancy anyone else. Either way, the solution is the same: go out there and meet other girls!

Yea, I do, and I have, in the past, not recently, but I have ended up sabotaging myself for some reason, only to go crying back to her (that was her MO too, execept she wouldn't sabotage herself)...

There are other girls at the moment though, but I am freaking out thinking I'm sabotaging myself again... and its not even a closeness thing... Actually the idea of sex with her was always incredibly off-putting (and still is). Its a fucked up web of I don't know what with her and my brain.


Fledz, she is just over a year younger than I am.

If you don't want to sleep with her, it means you don't want a relationship with her, which in my view already makes your situation a shitload easier than I imagined. It's countless times easier to avoid people you don't want close relationships with than vice versa. Move on.

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Originally posted by Fledz If you don't want to sleep with her, it means you don't want a relationship with her, which in my view already makes your situation a shitload easier than I imagined. It's countless times easier to avoid people you don't want close relationships with than vice versa. Move on.

Yea. I wish it was that easy. Its like some fucked up faux-incestuous jealousy thing though. I don't want to sleep with her, but the idea of anyone else sleeping with her pisses me off to no end (and makes me sick). I love hanging out with her, and when I do I feel so content and happy and like in my place... We don't even have to talk, we'd just sit around and watch movies or read or listen to music...

I don't know. We grew up together, she is like my little sister in a lot of regards and she was my best friend from the time I was like 8 till I was like 22 when we just stopped talking (after a few years of roughness and weird tension shit).

If I wanted to fuck her it would have been so much easier... I probably do but its so ingrained in me with her that I kept thinking that'd fuck it up. I probably shoulda tossed that notion to the side the first time the extent of my feelings for her came up.

Whatever. There are way better girls out there than her, I know it, I've met them. She still just has some sort of hold on one of the strings in my chest. Best to avoid letting her get close to them.