quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Really!? Have you ever mentioned her existence here? I had no idea, at all... does she listen to 9IN, watch animu...? |
Nope, she watches soap operas and likes Sublime. hahah
She's really not much like me, which is weird because in the past I'd always sought the company of people who shared the greatest amount of common interests. But I've come to realize that is an extremely shallow thing, and if you intend to stay with somebody for a long time, not only does it not matter what trendy little things they're into at the moment that just so happen to jive with your own, but it's important for each of you to have interests which divulge so that you spend important time maintaining your own lives and culture rather than always being the same. That's not to say we don't enjoy things together or something, it's just that distance makes the heart grow fonder, even if she is close by.
I've never learned so much from a woman before my girlfriend. She's maybe one of the most selfless and giving people I know, which has proven to be quite the quandary to a selfish/sadist/nihilist like myself.
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