Wait, you're a virgin?

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Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay Twice a year? Really? If you go out as much as you do, it must be the ginger in ya. No one wants to get accidently preggo'd by a ginger minger Are you funny in social situations? I'm asking this as a sincere question. You make a woman laugh, it's the same as making her cum.

Most of the time when I go out I get fucking spannered. Even if my face isn't doing a tribute to Edvard Munch my sex drive is totally non-existent. Ask some of the guys who've met me how I am socially. Lews, Chris, etc. I doubt they'll say I'm a complete stiff.

It's like that line from Trainspotting: Young Renton noticed the haste with which the successful, in the sexual sphere as in all others, segregated themselves from the failures. Some people have it, some don't. I've never really had it, but as a single guy if you can shag 2-4 girls a year you don't regret I don't think you're doing terribly. You're not Nou.

Anyway, I agree with the original point. Women do get hit on way more than men. Just look at that "10 hours walking in NYC video". There are countless desperate men out there with no fucking clue who will try it on with a woman who's giving out no signals whatsoever she wants approaching. Just from the attention my girlfriend gets - pathetic guys with no clue trying it on in the most cringe-worthy way possible, work colleagues sending her messages on Facebook, shit like that. Most of my female friends have lots of similar stories to tell. I'm shit with women but there's a big percentage of the male population who have no clue whatsoever, meaning they haven't got their dick wet since Biblical times and they skew this statistic way way over to one side.

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> A Different World [Downtempo Beats]
> A Secondhand Sunrise [Lush Breakbeat House]
> Lost In You [Trance Classics]

rhetorical question i hope.

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Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay I spend my whole day with women (literally, my job involves 0 dudes being around, i teach 80% women) i don't fuck, nor want to. We interact fine. This conversation was never about that. Quit trying to hide your own failures by changing subjects.

Cool story.

You also said though...

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Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay Ask yourself: Why is she talking to you in the first place if she is not trying to sell you something/trying to make business contact? To make friends? Epic lulz.

So right, your students you don't want to fuck. Good for you, such an accomplishment. Can you see any situation where you'd be friends with a woman though and not expect sex or some sort of romantic involvement?

Or is it like you said...

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Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay I don't "work" for free.

Is a friendship with a woman "work" then? Do you even have any male friends? If so, how the fuck does that work? Is the emotional effort put into a platonic male-male relationship somehow more worth it despite not any sexual reciprocation? The way you state things makes it seem like if you are friends with a girl you obviously need to be trying to fuck her or it isn't worth your time.

That is how I am reading your shit and that shit stinks.

This is, you know ignoring the fact that you are a known piece of shit, having posted nudes of your ex, who was a member of this forum, on this forum, which just screams a class act from A-Z when it comes to being mature about any relationship.

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Originally posted by SYSTEM-J Most of the time when I go out I get fucking spannered. Even if my face isn't doing a tribute to Edvard Munch my sex drive is totally non-existent. Ask some of the guys who've met me how I am socially. Lews, Chris, etc. I doubt they'll say I'm a complete stiff. It's like that line from Trainspotting: Young Renton noticed the haste with which the successful, in the sexual sphere as in all others, segregated themselves from the failures. Some people have it, some don't. I've never really had it, but as a single guy if you can shag 2-4 girls a year you don't regret I don't think you're doing terribly. You're not Nou. Anyway, I agree with the original point. Women do get hit on way more than men. Just look at that "10 hours walking in NYC video". There are countless desperate men out there with no fucking clue who will try it on with a woman who's giving out no signals whatsoever she wants approaching. Just from the attention my girlfriend gets - pathetic guys with no clue trying it on in the most cringe-worthy way possible, work colleagues sending her messages on Facebook, shit like that. Most of my female friends have lots of similar stories to tell. I'm shit with women but there's a big percentage of the male population who have no clue whatsoever, meaning they haven't got their dick wet since Biblical times and they skew this statistic way way over to one side.

Fair enough. I believe that we get back what we project. I've always been a guy that likes sex to the point of it being a weakness at times. Getting laid doesn't make you a better person, it just satisfies a need for instant gratification; something that I've always loved since i was a kid. *cue whipped cream can in mouth*

Nou. So under your skin. I'll talk to you tomorrow, my wife is calling me to bed, my son is finally asleep. I trust that your lonely angst will keep you warm tonight.

Remember nou: it's their fault no one wants you.

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Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay Fair enough. I believe that we get back what we project. I've always been a guy that likes sex to the point of it being a weakness at times. Getting laid doesn't make you a better person, it just satisfies a need for instant gratification; something that I've always loved since i was a kid. *cue whipped cream can in mouth* Nou. So under your skin. I'll talk to you tomorrow, my wife is calling me to bed, my son is finally asleep. I trust that your lonely angst will keep you warm tonight. Remember nou: it's their fault no one wants you.

Not under my skin, more so the fact that you choose to talk shit to me, with no basis in reality for the most part because 90% of it is assumptions, where as you consistently post degrading horrible shit about the things you do/believe and then act like your shit don't stink when someone calls you on it.

Furthermore, I don't see how/why you would consider myself engaging with one of the more active posters on this forum as being under my skin. That is giving yourself far too much credit.

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Originally posted by OrangestO Wait, you're a virgin?

I am

You are nou. Are and always will be. If this site is still around in 10 years, your posts will still be meandering around how much of a loser you are (in your own words no less).

I'm a has-been. You will forever be a never-was.

edit: at least you can take solace that there is one bigger social outcast on here than you. *looks at post above*

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Originally posted by Dykes_on_Jay You are nou. Are and always will be. If this site is still around in 10 years, your posts will still be meandering around how much of a loser you are (in your own words no less). I'm a has-been. You will forever be a never-was.

Whatever, I just hope you never have a daughter.

Whatever, i just hope that one day you can find hope.

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