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Originally posted by Joss Weatherby I found out that girl moved back from Missouri. Should I give her a call? She is having lunch with my dad sometime this week. I want to punch shit. AHGHSFFFGDDG/

You obviously still have her on your mind, despite telling us you're TOTALLY over her

Might as well go have lunch, she's your friend, right? Nothing more than that. A nice adult lunch, with friends and family

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN fuck you're a lazy cunt stu!! (and i should know)

That's a compliment from you! We all know you'll just spend all 4 days jerking off to remarkably specific porn.

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Bah, no thats probably a bad idea. She is like friggin heroin. I'll just hope that she doesn't contact me and forget she lives 30 minutes away again...

Besides there are other, cooler, nicer, smarter girls I should be focusing on, not acting like a dumb puppy and following around pussy on a pedestal i'll never get.

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Originally posted by Joss Weatherby Bah, no thats probably a bad idea. She is like friggin heroin. I'll just hope that she doesn't contact me and forget she lives 30 minutes away again... Besides there are other, cooler, nicer, smarter girls I should be focusing on, not acting like a dumb puppy and following around pussy on a pedestal i'll never get.

Well, that's not really a question....

It's up to you.

You are not going to get in this girl's pants, like you said. Let's accept that. Can you be friends with her, knowing that? Is she a good friend though, and can you just leave it at friendship... minus your attractions/not attracted at all/drama/fantasy?

Tough call, admittedly. You'll look like a prick if you don't show up (if you were invited), but by the sound of it, you're way into her still

You know you want to go and see her. Fess up, Nou

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Originally posted by Sushipunk Well, that's not really a question.... It's up to you. You are not going to get in this girl's pants, like you said. Let's accept that. Can you be friends with her, knowing that? Is she a good friend though, and can you just leave it at friendship... minus your attractions/not attracted at all/drama/fantasy? Tough call, admittedly. You'll look like a prick if you don't show up (if you were invited), but by the sound of it, you're way into her still You know you want to go and see her. Fess up, Nou

I wasn't invited. I am pretty sure she knows what would happen if we started hanging out again. I really don't think there is anyway we could just be friends and not fall back into the BS stupidity that led to us falling apart as friends. She called my dad looking for leads on some jobs and he decided to take her out to lunch since he hasn't seen her in a long time.

Do I want to go see her? I have no clue. Its like staring at the sun.

Just having it mentioned that she was back here, single, has pretty much ruined my mood the last couple days. Two straight nights of retarded dreams involving her. Worst part is I wouldn't mind being friends with her again and keeping it at that, but I just cant see it happening.

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Originally posted by Joss Weatherby I wasn't invited. I am pretty sure she knows what would happen if we started hanging out again. I really don't think there is anyway we could just be friends and not fall back into the BS stupidity that led to us falling apart as friends. She called my dad looking for leads on some jobs and he decided to take her out to lunch since he hasn't seen her in a long time. Do I want to go see her? I have no clue. Its like staring at the sun. Just having it mentioned that she was back here, single, has pretty much ruined my mood the last couple days. Two straight nights of retarded dreams involving her. Worst part is I wouldn't mind being friends with her again and keeping it at that, but I just cant see it happening.

Well, good luck avoiding her then. If you don't say "hi" immediately, it's going to be weirder when you DO happen to bump into each other, with you knowing she's been around for a while. And you will bump into her. Murphy's law, etc.

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i wonder if your dad was actually fucking her.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN i wonder if your dad was actually fucking her.

Of course, but the real contraceptive question is, how hard?

The simple fact she's on your mind shows that you're still and always have been deeply in love with her. Everyone has somebody like that, and in Stu's case they actually are his fiancee. Congratulations btw Stu.

Stu, 1 Israeli person or 1000 Bas?

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Originally posted by Sushipunk Well, good luck avoiding her then. If you don't say "hi" immediately, it's going to be weirder when you DO happen to bump into each other, with you knowing she's been around for a while. And you will bump into her. Murphy's law, etc.

It'd be just as weird for her tho :P I don't know. Hearing that she is back and then calling her seems a bit needy and pathetic doesn't it? Then again she had to have figured if she talked to my dad then I'd hear about it.

How can anyone be obsessed with someone for that long? I'm willing to bet it's only because you can't have her.

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Originally posted by Miss Pie How can anyone be obsessed with someone for that long? I'm willing to bet it's only because you can't have her.

Uhhh duh? Why does anyone long for something that long.

To be honest I never was hugely sexually attracted to her, she is good looking, but its more of a weird self-satisfaction being with her. Its very comfortable, nostalgic, peaceful feeling. We used to invite each other over to just sit there and do nothing. Watch TV or listen to music while reading or working on homework. We didn't even talk really. We really don't have a lot in common, interest wise, some music we both like, thats about it... It makes no sense, logically why I'd even be in to her. There have been plenty of other girls that I was far more attracted to, but being with them was different.

I don't know, its fucking gay. I hate feeling this way, I have no control over it.

Seriously, its like heroin.