Originally posted by Sushipunk
Once a month for my gf and I.
I can almost pinpoint it on the calendar every month...
Quite what I thought
Yeah, my friend was definitely exaggerating... and ignoring a few not-so-random mood changes that happen regularly in a relationship.
Wow, I fear what must happen between Lilith and her girlfriend. I hope they're out of sync!
Apr-24-2010 05:11
Halcyon+On+On
Liebchen
Registered: Sep 2004
Location: midcoast
Maybe once every 2-3 months, we'll come to a big, emotional disagreement, though we don't live together yet so I'm sure that has something to do with it.
Apr-24-2010 05:13
Sushipunk
Flickering, I roam
Registered: Sep 2006
Location: Chateau Verdafloor
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Quite what I thought
Yeah, my friend was definitely exaggerating....
I dunno, it's probably more like every couple of months, really. We get short with each other every month (her because she's hormonal, me because I get the shits with her being hormonal), but it doesn't usually escalate into 'epic' that often.
Apr-24-2010 05:15
Lilith
Meowsies!
Registered: Nov 2000
Location: Maximum Security twilight home for cats
I quite like Japan in that respect, its mostly built for normal people and not freaks of nature gallivanting around with their head in the clouds.
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
And, more randomly, a question to those of you in stable relationships: how often do you fight/argue with your significant other? I told a friend my fiancée and I have biweekly/monthly epic arguments and she thought it was too frequent. Really? I thought once/twice a month was pretty average...
Think we've had one serious argument in about the last 18 months. Lot of it comes down to personal space/interests and being astute enough to know what annoys each other.
Apr-24-2010 05:15
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasília, Brazil
quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Maybe once every 2-3 months, we'll come to a big, emotional disagreement, though we don't live together yet so I'm sure that has something to do with it.
For a while I thought you were talking about your cat
I didn't even know you had a girlfriend, for how long have you guys been together?
Apr-24-2010 05:15
fughawzi
tranceaddict in training
Registered: Apr 2010
Location: Los Angeles, California
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
And, more randomly, a question to those of you in stable relationships: how often do you fight/argue with your significant other? I told a friend my fiancée and I have biweekly/monthly epic arguments and she thought it was too frequent. Really? I thought once/twice a month was pretty average...
Really, I think it depends on the relationship. I would suggest breaking it off if you're fighting multiple times a day, but otherwise everyone has their own normal.
Lews and I don't really fight, which is weird because I can be a sarcastic bitch and I used to have constant epic battles with my previous boyfriend. I'll randomly get bitchy and he'll find it amusing and vice versa. We are both psychotic.
Apr-24-2010 05:21
Lilith
Meowsies!
Registered: Nov 2000
Location: Maximum Security twilight home for cats
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
I didn't even know you had a girlfriend, for how long have you guys been together?
Hmm, Hal gets a girlfriend, Slylee disappears...
Guess he doesn't have internet in his basement.
Apr-24-2010 05:23
Halcyon+On+On
Liebchen
Registered: Sep 2004
Location: midcoast
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
For a while I thought you were talking about your cat
I didn't even know you had a girlfriend, for how long have you guys been together?
Just over 2 years.
Apr-24-2010 05:25
Lews
Platipus And Prog Addict
Registered: Feb 2007
Location: Hugging Whales And Saving Trees
quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Maybe once every 2-3 months, we'll come to a big, emotional disagreement, though we don't live together yet so I'm sure that has something to do with it.
Oh shit, I didn't know you had a girlfriend either.
Apr-24-2010 05:27
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasília, Brazil
quote:
Originally posted by fughawzi
Really, I think it depends on the relationship. I would suggest breaking it off if you're fighting multiple times a day, but otherwise everyone has their own normal.
Lews and I don't really fight, which is weird because I can be a sarcastic bitch and I used to have constant epic battles with my previous boyfriend. I'll randomly get bitchy and he'll find it amusing and vice versa. We are both psychotic.
Hey, now that's a pleasant reply! Hello there, Lews' girlfriend!
...
I don't know how to read your name. I see you're in California, can I call you Hao Zi?
Apr-24-2010 05:30
Lira
Ancient BassAddict
Registered: Nov 2001
Location: Brasília, Brazil
quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Just over 2 years.
Really!? Have you ever mentioned her existence here? I had no idea, at all... does she listen to 9IN, watch animu...?
Apr-24-2010 05:34
Sushipunk
Flickering, I roam
Registered: Sep 2006
Location: Chateau Verdafloor
quote:
Originally posted by fughawzi
Really, I think it depends on the relationship. I would suggest breaking it off if you're fighting multiple times a day, but otherwise everyone has their own normal.
Lews and I don't really fight, which is weird because I can be a sarcastic bitch and I used to have constant epic battles with my previous boyfriend. I'll randomly get bitchy and he'll find it amusing and vice versa. We are both psychotic.