quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
oh, whoops, i forgot... i'm a transsexual, and i'm supposed to take any attention i can get, and then shut my mouth and be grateful. |
Yeah, right, because that's exactly what I expect from you.
Come on, you're smarter than that.
quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
Do you go up to black people in the US and say 'OMG you're so black, so I think you'll find this picture of black people so interesting!'? |
Why the hell would I even do that? If, however, I was friends with someone from Djibouti and found some pictures of his country, I'd definitely post them to show some interest about his country/lifestyle/background. People often share with me the stuff they find about Brazil, for example, for the very same reason.
At least when people showed me the things I disagreed with (such as the film "Cidade de Deus") I had the decency to knock the film but still appreciate the move of the poster who just wanted to share something about myself.
But, in your case, of course, it's a blatant attack if it doesn't fit your standards. It's like you search for an excuse to be oppressed.
quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
You are 'The Self-Proclaimed Ally'.
With maybe a dash of 'The What About Teh Cis Whiner' and 'The Free Speech Whiner' |
Hooray for not wanting to be labelled just to go on and label others!
Stop thinking I'm talking about transgender people in general, I'm talking to you about you and no one else.
quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
And as far as pronouns go: If a person identifies as female, that person is 'she'. That person's past is now 'hers' even if 'she' was assigned male at birth. See how that works? |
Exactly what I said, except back then it is unlikely that she identified herself as a girl. So I refer to her as a he before whatever the proper term for the shift is.
quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
Sheesh. Nice guy. All this abusive language just because I said I didn't find your link as interesting as you may have hoped. |
Yeah, because I go on an angry tirade every time someone disagrees with me or doesn't appreciate the things I do! I'm known to be quite intolerant and take no slight amount of abuse
The reason why I lost my patience with you (and you only, stop hiding behind your gender) is because you take everything to be an attack, even when we're well intended and with the best of intentions, as Eddie Zilker pointed out. You're, as far as I know, the only person I've ever personally offended around here (well, there was that one time I insulted Malek but I was talking about a book and not about him until he started offending me)... and it went on and on with me trying to adapt to your standards. I've had enough.
quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
Your behavior is not much different from the guy at the bar a few weeks ago who forced himself on me and tried to kiss me and then called me a slur when I pushed him off and said 'You should be grateful I'm giving you attention, no other straight guy in this city would give you the time of day'. |
Are you kidding me? Really? You think I'm giving you attention because I somehow believe you're pitiful and no one else would care about you? Awwww!!! Come on, I try to be friends with everyone around here, and connect with every single user because I believe everyone has something good to offer. Somehow in your case it's special because of your new background, as if I ignored you prior to your sex change?
Wow, what a sad human being you're turning out to be.
quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
Glad you were honest though. |
Yeah, right, because you can now go on and say breeders are bigots, as if I had a beef with your gender and not with your behaviour. Keep telling yourself that.
Edit: Just read System-J's post. He's spot on.
Last edited by Lira on Dec-04-2011 at 23:09
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