Umm.. from the story from the party, it seems as though you were moving like a slug, and not like a cheetah, which is what you should have done. You've obviously been wasting time, if she has to take your hand and grab her ass with it. What were you doing? Talking philosophy or something? Lol.
I mean, I think it's pretty obvious that she wanted you to to fuck her right then and there, quite possibly even in the livingroom.
You said "attempt to take her at my place".
Do you mean you tried to take her back to your place, or were you at your place and you were trying to bone her?
I'd think it was the first one, when looking at the rest of your grammar style, but not sure about that one, and it kinda makes a big difference :P
Anyways, yeah. Some chicks only leave open a window for like 5 minutes,
and if you don't fly in right away, you're gonna be stuck outside all cold and lonely.
And yeah, she might not have wanted anything more than a dick, buuuut at least you'd stand a greater chance, given that your performance was above par.