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I'm in a very stable and amazing relationship. Neither I nor my girlfriend would ever cheat on each other and I just can't understand why anyone would. I've got a problem with seeing things from other people's perspectives, I guess. I can't see why I would ever want to hurt her, so I can't see why anyone else would want to hurt someone that they cared about or loved. It just doesn't click in my head at all.
Lira, maybe you and I are weird. But I prefer being a nice guy than being a dick like most the guys I see around me.
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I totally agree with you though mate, I simply can't comprehend it, i don't know if it's me being naive, but the girl i'm with was carefully chosen, cause i couldn't be fucked dealing with stupid people i didn't respect... maybe if i was i would be more inclined to cheat, but why the hell would you be in that relationship in the first place?
I also don't really get the whole 'rush' aspect of cheating AT ALL.
but maybe i'm just boring c/f others...
edit: even if i could "get away with it", i just would never consider it... I can't figure out the pull, but yeah, i'm generally considered socially weird, and this is no doubt evidence of that, since the majority of others seem to think relationships are some kind of horrible burden, while i LIKE them
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